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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ... (More)
About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background in high-tech is helpful in understanding local couples' dynamics and the pressures of living here. I am a wife, mom, sister, friend, author, and lifelong advocate for causes I believe in (such as marriage equality). My parents are both deceased. My son graduated culinary school and is heading toward a degree in Sociology. I enjoy reading, hiking, water fitness, movies, 49ers and Stanford football, Giants baseball, and riding a tandem bike with my husband. I love the beach and mountains; nature is my place of restoration. In my work with couples, and in this blog, I combine knowledge from many fields to bring you my best ideas, tips, tools and skills, plus book and movie reviews, and musings to help you be your genuine self, find your own voice, and have a happy and healthy relationship. Don't be surprised to hear about brain research and business skills, self-soothing techniques from all walks of life, suggestions and experiments, and anything that lights my passion for couples. (Author and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Calif. Lic # MFC 45204.) (Hide)
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Premarital and Couples: The "Right" Way to Eat an Artichoke
Oct 11, 2019 2:16 pm
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At dinner recently, my husband and I were eating artichokes and having a spirited conversation, as we often do. I looked over at one point and noticed he was eating... More
Oct 11, 2019 2:16 pm
Comments: 1 | Views: 5,574
At dinner recently, my husband and I were eating artichokes and having a spirited conversation, as we often do. I looked over at one point and noticed he was eating... More
Premarital and Couples: Get Real
Oct 4, 2019 11:51 am
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"Be grateful for every scar life inflicts on you. Where we're unhurt is where we are false. Where we're wounded and healed [my italics is where our real... More
Oct 4, 2019 11:51 am
Comments: 3 | Views: 5,850
"Be grateful for every scar life inflicts on you. Where we're unhurt is where we are false. Where we're wounded and healed [my italics is where our real... More
Three Top Thoughts on Letting Go and Moving On
Sep 26, 2019 1:54 pm
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You Can’t Make Yourself Let Go or Move On--So Be Kind to Yourself
While it’s uncomfortable, you need to let yourself feel... More
Sep 26, 2019 1:54 pm
Comments: 0 | Views: 5,726
You Can’t Make Yourself Let Go or Move On--So Be Kind to Yourself
While it’s uncomfortable, you need to let yourself feel... More
Helping Partners Become Couples (vs. Helping Couples Become Partners)
Sep 21, 2019 8:36 am
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I was recently told that my tag line, Helping Partners Become Couples, is backwards and should be Helping Couples Become Partners.
In my experience with many,... More
Sep 21, 2019 8:36 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 4,892
I was recently told that my tag line, Helping Partners Become Couples, is backwards and should be Helping Couples Become Partners.
In my experience with many,... More
Premarital: Women Over 50 Do Get Married
Sep 13, 2019 8:23 am
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Wedding Bells After Fifty by Autumn Marie is a read I recommend. There's a myth that women over 50 won't get married, and this book is out to dispel that.... More
Sep 13, 2019 8:23 am
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Wedding Bells After Fifty by Autumn Marie is a read I recommend. There's a myth that women over 50 won't get married, and this book is out to dispel that.... More
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