Parenting Competing Daughters: Smart or Spoiling
Original post made by Smart or Spoiling, Amador Valley High School, on Feb 6, 2010
I have two daughters one year apart in age 13/14.
They fight and argue constantly, much competition of older trying to put down the younger. Younger is now fully able to defend and plays offense as well. Getting in a car with them is like getting in a cage with cats and dogs. yes we know they will be best friends in 10 years.
Question: should we send one to foothill and one to amador instead of both to same school. Is this spoiling or rather allowing each to thrive without constant drag of the other belittling their plans, friends, grades, appearance etc.
Thank you in advance for your unedited and unsensored advice!