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Emergency! Bring out the gifts

Original post made on Dec 21, 2011

Don't be caught unprepared when a neighbor or other friend appears on your doorstep today with a bit of Christmas cheer and possibly a nice gift for you.

Read the full story here Web Link posted Wednesday, December 21, 2011, 6:07 AM

Comments (2)

Posted by Politely disagree, a resident of Downtown
on Dec 21, 2011 at 9:36 am

Gifting is a vicious cycle.

If you didn't elect to put Neighbor Nellie on your Christmas List and they drop in with a gift, I don't think you need to have a "stand by" gift ready.

Better yet, say "Thank you - we appreciate the thought" and leave it at that.

Christmas is about being with friends and family, not something wrapped in a box that will be forgotten or discarded by the new year.


Posted by Disagreeing As Well., a resident of Another Pleasanton neighborhood
on Dec 21, 2011 at 11:51 am

"Don't worry that the gift you receive is more personal than the gift you give: True friends don't track such things and can understand that you might have run out of time, money and/or ideas."

True friends don't expect a gift back. Many of us are on a tight budget to just get gifts for our kids, let alone all the neighbors or friends we know.


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